Thomas
Hugh married Henrietta
Elizabeth Williams-Wynn, from Denbigh, Wales, in 1810, and they had 6
children, 5 sons and one daughter. Henrietta Elizabeth the wife of Thomas
Hugh, died in 1852 aged 66 years old and Thomas Hugh died in 1855 aged
88.
The eldest son of this marriage was named Hugh Cholmondeley (1811-1887)
(Welsh Church records state 1812 as being the year of birth) and he became
the 2nd
Lord Delamere in 1855 upon the death of his powerful, heavy handed and influential
father Thomas Hugh. Hugh, 2nd Lord Delamere also had inherited not
only the family title and the vast estate, but also 'major headaches' and serious
legal issues because of the overspending of the family fortune by his father Thomas
Hugh, who had been extravagantly spending the great wealth that had been
passed down through the family from the Holfords.
How
did Hugh, 2nd Lord Delamere, handle these financial problems and
difficulties, plus the complicated legal affairs of the estate that he now had
to deal with and try to resolve? Also extracts from the family records related
to his personal and private family issues, indicate that he had to care for and
also handle additional serious personal problems, especially related to his first
wife Lady
Sarah Hay-Drummond, and her subsequent death at the young age of 30 years
old in 1859.
Hugh,
2nd Lord Delamere
also had to cope with his complex second marriage to Augusta
Emily Seymour the following year in 1860, and their two children Hugh
(Junior) born in 1870 and Sybil,
born in 1871, plus he was also trying to care for his much younger, only sister
Henrietta Charlotte Cholmondeley.
Why was his second marriage complex,
you might ask? Please wait until we release the intimate family details of this
relationship and the surrounding problems that existed. This detailed account,
related to this period of the history of Vale Royal and the Cholmondeley family
makes the most fascinating reading for students of English history and especially
Cheshire history (more extracts from our research reports coming soon)
Brief
extract from the research report regarding Hugh Cholmondeley, 2nd
Lord Delamere; his second marriage to Augusta
Emily Seymour and their 2 children.
Extract
from pages 23 & 24:
"By the time Hugh, 2nd Lord Delamere
inherited the Vale Royal estate; the title and the Great House, in 1855, the funds
in the estate had almost been depleted, making it very difficult to maintain the
life style of a Lord in the British Peerage. It also seems that Hugh was having
problems with his second marriage to Augusta. His second wife was a similar age
to his first wife, Lady
Sarah Hay, being about 24 years his junior. The major difference is that
Lady Sarah was a very weak and delicate girl and was sick for much of the
time up until her death at the young age of 30, on 17 February 1859, whereas Augusta
being more robust and an independent individual, lived away from Vale Royal in
Cheshire for long periods of time, spending many months each year in London and
also in Bournemouth, on the South Coast of England, with her socialite friends
right up until her death in 1911.
In addition, Hugh
Cholmondeley, 2nd Lord Delamere, in 1860
had also decided to undertake a major task close to his heart, and he ambitiously
commissioned the building of a local church in the village of Over in Cheshire,
close to Vale Royal House, which was to be dedicated to the memory of his first
wife Lady Sarah who had died in 1859. This must have been a major undertaking
at the time, not only in costs, in view of his current financial restraints, but
also consuming much of his time and energy, considering all the other problems
he had to cope with related to the large estate and the Great House and
Great Hall at Vale Royal in Cheshire, which was still in need of more restoration
and ongoing maintenance.
However the determination of Hugh Cholmondeley,
2nd Lord Delamere, typical of his character, and also the burning
desire he had and the commitment he felt to leave a permanent memorial for his
much loved first wife, Lady Sarah, resulted in this beautiful architectural heritage
St
John the Evangelist's Church that visitors to Cheshire can still enjoy even
to this day (2012). For a more personal and detailed account of this very
positive and up-building Christian and spiritual community, related by the local
parishioners and also the dedicated servant of the "Lord
Jesus Christ" and the current vicar, George Crowder, visit
this site.
The
two children of Hugh Cholmondeley, 2nd Lord Delamere and Augusta (2nd
wife) were also away from their home at Vale Royal for most of the time, the daughter
Sybil born in 1871 and who died in 1911 (apparent suicide), spent
most of her time in London and Bournemouth with her mother Augusta, and Hugh
(Jnr) (who eventually became 3rd Lord Delamere) born in 1870, was away
at boarding school at Eton
from a very young age and he was also giving his father, Hugh (Snr) a very
difficult time. Not only was it costing his father Hugh (Snr) an enormous
amount of money each year in school fees to keep up the appropriate life-style
of having a son at Eton, when he could ill afford it, but Hugh (Jnr) was
also a "tear-away" according to family journals, always getting into
trouble at Eton
College, not just mischievous acts, but quite dangerous and somewhat rebellious
acts, such as alcohol, drugs and violence. (See the upcoming report on the
life style and character of Hugh (Jnr), who eventually became the 3rd Lord
Delamere at the young age of 17, upon the death of his father Hugh in 1887.
Plus how young Hugh, being the sole male heir who had also inherited the vast
family estate and what few assets remained, the report will also show how most
of these remaining family assets were liquidated and how the proceeds were used
and transferred out of England to help finance his farm, estate and life style
in Kenya, Africa).
Family
records show that Hugh Cholmondeley, 2nd Lord Delamere, must have
been a very lonely man during the last 15 years of his life, and he depended heavily
upon his faithful and loyal housekeeper M.G. (full name to be
revealed upon the consent of her family descendants) and of course he depended
also on his dedicated downstairs staff. (complete list soon to be revealed
upon consent of their family decendants)
Note
about the sale of portions of the Cholmondeley Estate Listed in Sotheby's Public
Catalog of 1910: "Sale by Hugh Cholmondeley, 3rd Lord Delamere, included
1048 acres of land of the family estate, including, Knights Grange Farm, Westholme
Farm, Salterswall Farm, Marton Hall, Marton Bank Farm, Spring Bank Farm, Chester
Lane Farm, Poolhead Farm, Little Lane Farm, Lane End Farm, School Farm, Peartree
House and many properties in Delamere Street, Grange Lane, and Swanlow Lane, Winsford,
Cheshire."
Hugh,
3rd Lord Delamere (1870-1931) also placed numerous and quite valuable
works of art belonging to the family estate, these to be sold at public auction
as listed in the "private
catalogue" of Sotheby's.
Note
about Sybil Burnaby (nee Cholmondeley) daughter of Hugh, 2nd
Lord Delamere (1811 -1887) and her mother, being Augusta Emily Cholmondeley
(nee Seymore), also being the only (older) sister of Hugh 3rd Lord Delamere
who had moved permanently to live and settle in Kenya in 1901.
Records
in the archives of Scotland Yard, London, England, do not definately establish
beyond all reasonable doubt that the death of Sybil Burnaby (nee
Cholmondeley) in 1911 was in fact suicide, but from written recorded interviews
with the servants, at least two members of the household staff related their attempts
to try and prevent Sybil from throwing herself out of the 3rd floor
window of her house in Wilton
Place in London.
A
report in a National
Newspaper of 1911 reveals that Sybil
"fell" out of a window of the 3rd floor of her house at Wilton
Place, in London on 13 May 1911, and died two weeks later of her injuries
on the 26 May 1911. But considering the circumstantial evidence, she had been
married in 1896 to a Lieutenant
Algerman Edwyn Burnaby, a wild philanderer, but Sybil divorced him in 1901
after spending 3 years trapped in a miserable marriage, and after her husband
ran off with a married woman. Despite the well circulated rumor attached to her
"falling" out of a window, the surrounding facts show that she did in
fact commit suicide,
either because of her father's death, Hugh, 2nd Lord Delamere in 1887;
her failed marriage in 1901; her mother's death a few month's earlier on 25 February
1911, to whom she had been very attached and very close (probably the main
reason), and also her only brother Hugh the 3rd Lord Delamere
(1870-1931), sole heir to the family estate, now living in Kenya and who had squandered
much of the remaining family wealth, was now selling off a large portion of the
family properties consisting of a number of farms and houses, plus the impressive
family art collection in Cheshire, and he allowed the once beautiful and prestigious
family home at Vale
Royal to become a dilapidated, neglected shambles.
Editor's
Note: We have received a recent photograph of an original portrait that was
abandoned and found in the armory basement of the Great House at Vale Royal
in Cheshire. This is a portrait that obviously was not sold back in the 1920's
because of the damage to the canvass, but this portrait has since been mislaid.
If you or one of your associate readers recognize the subject of this portrait
please contact us, to see
a copy of the photo (jpeg file).
In addition, of serious concern to Sybil,
(expressed in letters to her mother Augusta) the small annual stipend that
Sybil received from the Cholmondeley family estate (set up by her father
Hugh) was also now being seriously jeopardized, as the funds in the family
estate were quickly becoming exhausted, and this could soon result in her becoming
extremely short of funds to cover her basic family expenses and commitments, or
maybe she would eventually become destitute (considered a total disgrace to
a woman of her caliber) and also in addition not being able to maintain her
well
positioned property at the prestigious location at Wilton
Place in Westminster-Belgravia, London, as her ex-husband had also refused
to pay her any support for herself and her young son.
Sybil
certainly could not move back to the family home at Vale Royal in Cheshire
to live there with her young son, Hugh
Edwyn Burnaby, because the legal owner of the estate; her brother Hugh
Cholmondeley, 3rd Lord Delamere, was still "offically" living in
the house until 1907 as his English residence, although he was in fact actually
living in Kenya most of the time.
Eventually in 1907, Vale
Royal was rented out by Hugh Cholmondeley, 3rd Lord Delamere to a Robert
Dempster, a wealthy industrialist, owner of the Gas
Plant Works and a businessman from Manchester.
Robert Dempster died while on vacation at the Mount
Nelson Hotel in Cape Town in 1925 and his daughter Edith
Pretty (nee Dempster) took over the lease until 1926 when Vale
Royal was eventually taken over and controlled by the British Goverment
because of incumbent debts. (More details of this sad saga will be revealed
in a future report, to be published by the Delamere
Group and the Manchester Guardian)
It is very likely that the combination
of these many family problems, incidents and events made the future prospects
of Sybil look very bleak indeed and eventually drove her to take
her own life at 39 years of age. See this extract from a newspaper
of 13 May 1911 which confirms that witnesses saw servants trying to prevent her
from jumping out of the window. Read also this newspaper
extract announcing her death on 26 May 1911.
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